Can you have multiple orgasms?
Being Multi-orgasmic, is it a fallacy, here are some of the details.
Definition of multiple orgasms: experiencing orgasms within half a minute to a minute apart, which is quite close together. Each orgasm in a multiple session doesn't have to be earth shattering, it can be waves of pleasure, or even tension releases, we all experience orgasms differently and at different intensities, so multiple orgasms also vary with each individual.
Women
Fact: Women are more multi-orgasmic than men because they don't have to go through as long a refractory period as men. And when they do orgasm they remain on a plateau stage, which means they stay aroused even after an orgasm. Once a woman experiences an orgasm, she is likely to be able to achieve another if she keeps stimulating her genitals after, though your clitoris may be too sensitive, use other indirect stimulation on your vagina, labia, anus or breasts/nipples.
Fact: Women are more multi-orgasmic than men because they don't have to go through as long a refractory period as men. And when they do orgasm they remain on a plateau stage, which means they stay aroused even after an orgasm. Once a woman experiences an orgasm, she is likely to be able to achieve another if she keeps stimulating her genitals after, though your clitoris may be too sensitive, use other indirect stimulation on your vagina, labia, anus or breasts/nipples.
During intercourse the best position to use is female dominant as she has full control over how quickly and deeply she is penetrated and how much friction she feels against her clitoris. Most women that experience multiple orgasms are usually in their late 20's and early 30's, usually as they become more aware of what their bodies like but that doesn't mean it can be experienced if you are outside this age range. There are many women in their 40’s that achieve multiple orgasms.
How to be multi-orgasmic?
Masturbation is the absolute best way for anyone, to learn about their bodies and what they like sexually. So, when you masturbate, stimulate yourself to the verge of orgasm, then pause, hold back, wait and continue in a slower more relaxed pace. Repeat the whole process, until you absolutely can't hold off any longer, then allow yourself to orgasm.
Masturbation is the absolute best way for anyone, to learn about their bodies and what they like sexually. So, when you masturbate, stimulate yourself to the verge of orgasm, then pause, hold back, wait and continue in a slower more relaxed pace. Repeat the whole process, until you absolutely can't hold off any longer, then allow yourself to orgasm.
As you start to calm down then stimulate your vagina, and the area around the clitoris until you feel the waves building up, then move more directly to your clitoris. Use your fingers or a small vibrator such as the "fingertron" for more tips about masturbation and vibrators see the two articles on these subjects.
With your partner during intercourse?
The most advantageous position for a woman to experience multiple orgasms is the Woman-On-Top position. This allows her to initiate and direct most of the movements as far as how quickly and deeply she's penetrated and she can also control the amount of stimulation to her clitoris. What about Men?
The most advantageous position for a woman to experience multiple orgasms is the Woman-On-Top position. This allows her to initiate and direct most of the movements as far as how quickly and deeply she's penetrated and she can also control the amount of stimulation to her clitoris. What about Men?
Generally, men are not as multi-orgasmic as women because when men ejaculate they go through an unresponsive stage this can last for only minutes but may last for hours, meaning that unlike women, who can continue genital stimulation right after orgasm, men can not. Following ejaculation, men have to start from the beginning, getting aroused to totally erect all over again. The key to men being multi-orgasmic is to learn to hold off on ejaculation. We must explore male orgasm to understand this. Generally, men have an orgasm and ejaculate at the simultaneously, leading themselves to believe that the two go hand in hand, but this is not necessarily so. The act of ejaculating and experiencing and orgasm are two different things for men.
Many men have ejaculated without experiencing orgasm and vice versa, climaxing without ejaculating. And that's the key, because by not ejaculating you'll remain in a high stage of excitement. Men need that rest period after ejaculating. Many of the men that experience orgasm without ejaculating experience a very short unresponsive rest period.
Can a man learn to be multi-orgasmic?
Developing strong PC muscles can help you control when you ejaculate. You can do this by trying to use your internal muscles to move and lift your penis, this will help you control yourself, and it looks rather sexy. Another method you can use is to stimulate yourself to the verge of an orgasm, once you reach that point, use your index finger and thumb to pinch down on your testicles. Take a deep breath and go again, this will teach control.
Developing strong PC muscles can help you control when you ejaculate. You can do this by trying to use your internal muscles to move and lift your penis, this will help you control yourself, and it looks rather sexy. Another method you can use is to stimulate yourself to the verge of an orgasm, once you reach that point, use your index finger and thumb to pinch down on your testicles. Take a deep breath and go again, this will teach control.
During intercourse
Get your partner can stimulate you to the verge of orgasm, or show your lover, and they can pinch your testicles, take a deep breathe and start again, until your ready to orgasm. Either that or when you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, stop all stimulation to yourself and concentrate on your partner, then when you've leveled out, start up again, its all about control. It's a wonderful experience if you can learn to experience multiple orgasms. Although, it should not be the prime goal all of your sexual encounters, remember also that if you can't it's not a problem, because only 60% of women can experience multiple orgasms.
Get your partner can stimulate you to the verge of orgasm, or show your lover, and they can pinch your testicles, take a deep breathe and start again, until your ready to orgasm. Either that or when you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, stop all stimulation to yourself and concentrate on your partner, then when you've leveled out, start up again, its all about control. It's a wonderful experience if you can learn to experience multiple orgasms. Although, it should not be the prime goal all of your sexual encounters, remember also that if you can't it's not a problem, because only 60% of women can experience multiple orgasms.
The most important thing is that you and your partner enjoy each other while you're together, sharing lots of foreplay before engaging in intercourse. Make that the very last thing you do and even once you’ve finished, bask in the afterglow with your partner.
